How To Pick Up Women - Confusing Signals And Flirting

When we are talking about the topic of "picking up women." I often be asked what to do in order to "pick up women", or just "how to pick up women".

I recently got asked the doubt: "Why do girls flirt with you and when you flirt back they push it away? It's so confusing!!!" I thought it was interesting and significant enough to share.

To begin with, women have different personalities. What is being described here is a type of personality, not all girls in general. The personality type that usually does this kind of behavior is a little insecure. They are testing the water, but they don't really want to make a start.

The best way to deal with this personality type is when you see it is not to react, not to take the bait so to speak. Let the girl flirt all she desires, let her take the lead. Let her control how the relationship goes. If you don't react, she will get comfortable with you and steepen the gradient over time. If you react (flirt back) she will often skip out.

Problem is, however, people with similar or compatible personalities tend to hang out together. So at times you can get the impression that the whole world is one way, when in fact it may be only a certain percentage of people who are like that. So if you always think ALL women are one way, alter your environment. Go somewhere different, meet different people in different situations and perhaps you will discover different personality types and probably one that is more compatible with you.

Now having said that, let's look at it from a different angle. Women in general like flirting for flirting's sake more than gents do. Men will flirt mainly because they are interested in a woman. Women will flirt to see if they get a reaction, to see if they are looking good and are impressive, even when they are not interested in a man. They will flirt with a guy they are only interested in being friends with.

One way to get better hold of these conditions is to look at all the communication channels that a woman is using to communicate - Like by word of mouth, emotional, physical, mental, and sexual communications.

When a woman likes you she is likely to communicate that she likes you across all of the communications modes. When she is simply playing around she will give you conflicting communications. So when you see a woman flirting with you, but she does not back up the flirting by showing you she likes you through ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation seriously.

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